What I’ve learned from you in 2014 – Part 1

A little ketchup goes a long way...

A little ketchup goes a long way…

2014 was a good year. I got to know many wonderful bloggers. While struggling to find out what photographing really meant to me, I was encouraged by and learned from many of you. Thank you!

I have gathered and reread the comments I had received from you and I am amazed at your wisdom words. Now I would like to share them with you and I hope you’ll like them as much as I do.

(There is no particular order for the list… I am too lazy to put them in any order.)

Otto von Münchow
You should follow your own way. If you shoot “soft” street photos, then don’t worry about others shooting bold and strong images. Just keep doing what you do and be honest with yourself.

I think you shouldn’t worry about what happens if you do this or if you do that. If it sounds interesting to learn more about Photoshop for instance, I would just go for it (although I would actually recommend starting with Lightroom, which has a much less steep learning curve and is more intuitive to use). And if you end up always wanting to Photoshop your images, so what? If that’s what you want, that’s fine – and it’s called developing you photographic voice – something you can’t plan beforehand anyway. As long as you are honest to yourself; whatever you do is going to be fine.

treerabold
I thinks it’s important that we be open to what others say and keep practicing!!

Each photo tells its own story. Maybe some of us aren’t meant to be professional level photographers but that doesn’t mean we don’t have a story to tell through our photographs. Our stories and our photos are unique to us. No one else can tell the story we have in our heart and no one else can see exactly what we see.

I think sharing our hearts and creativity with others is so much more important. Each time we share a creative piece of writing or creative photo we put a little piece of ourselves out into the world!!

Mark Kertesz Photography
In my opinion you are good enough when you are proud of what you have taken. When some emotions are stirred from your photograph you have done your job but it’s all about you. Should others along the way like it that’s great but in my humble opinion no validation is needed just do it because you love it and that will shine through.

Amy
To me, a great photo should give viewers a room to image, related to, or tell a story.

Paul’s Pictures
Once we stop comparing our work with others then we move forward. We then stop trying to match ourselves to the expectations and standards of others (an impossibility as we will never be satisfied) and begin creating real art.

I think you should follow your own vision.

Lignum Draco
It’s important to find your own style.

I’m glad you’ve found your passion. Now you know where your heart is, the rest will flow.

There’s so much to read (from Internet) that’s free. But remember practice and experimentation is what is truly important.

Steve
Comparisons will always make you feel smaller than you really are. If all birds sang the same song, it would be boring 🙂

Mother Hen
You are free to be who you are and capture what interests you.. Isn’t it wonderful to realize that.

I love diversity and so it is hard for me to nail it down. Our world offers so much of everything.

firstandfabulous
Be inspire by other people’s talents, not discouraged that I’m not as good. Sounds so simple but I always got discouraged that I wasn’t as good. I decided to take a new outlook and be inspired rather than to withdraw.

Elizabeth
we all have our own style and view of the world, these make us what we are, it’s good to learn few techniques with others, but the important is to find our own qualities and enjoy it.

Evenretep
I do it for me, I do it for the art, for the pleasure of an image, the colour of nature, I still do some studio work, but just for friends and family, I no longer have to be at someone’s beck and call, just being me.

You take photographs how you feel, leave the rules, philosophy and everything to those who want to use them, those to make money from photography and those who have a very long pole up their backside.

carol1945
Each of us is unique and each of our photographs whether they are “good” or “bad” are expressions of our own individuality.

jpeggytaylor
Even the smallest things in nature can be so beautiful – we can find new and beautiful things around us every day 🙂

Woolly Muses
Photography should be all about enjoying what we are shooting and endeavoring to improve our own techniques and skills to the degree we want. As for post processing….I think I read on another blog that if it takes longer than two minutes the photo was not good enough in the first place. Personally I think that is a fairly good yardstick to go by.

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Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Table and Chairs, seating of any kind

Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Table and Chairs, seating of any kind

One day, my husband and I visited our local Art Center. While he was busy taking photos of several art objects (I think they are art objects), I was attracted by a stack of chairs in the cafeteria.

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Pearl Necklace

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One day when my daughter was 7 or 8, she gave me a pearl necklace that she had made at school. I told her I loved it and thanked her. That night before we went for dinner with friends, my daughter said to me, “Mom, you can wear your new necklace!”

I looked at necklace, thinking I shouldn’t disappoint her, but a small section of the necklace didn’t have pearl on it. “I’ll wear it next time,” I said.

“No, Mom, wear it today,” she said.

“I can’t. Not today. Next time, okay?”

She wasn’t happy; I felt terrible.

Many years later, I got older and was no longer care what people think of me. One day, when my daughter was home, I put on the pearl necklace for dinner at a nice restaurant. “Where did you get that?” my daughter asked.

“You made it for me, remember?”

“Oh… yes. Why are you wearing it?”

“You were quite upset that I didn’t wear it when we went out eating dinner with friends, remember?” I said. I paused and then continued in a soft voice, “I told you I would wear it later.”

She giggled. “That’s embarrassing. Would you please take it off now?”

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Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Textures

Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Textures

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Cee’s Odd Ball Photo Challenge: 2015 Week #4

Cee’s Odd Ball Photo Challenge: 2015 Week #4

Before my great niece was born, our family had a diaper design contest… 😉

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Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Roadscapes

Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Roadscapes

It’s a beautiful January day: sunny, 40 degrees. We stopped at Root River County Park to hike and take photos. The snow was deep. We sank down quite a bit with each step. (Why didn’t we bring our snowshoes?)

Before turning around to go home, I said to my husband, “Wait. I have to take a couple of photos for Cee.” 😉

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Share Your World – 2015 Week #3

Share Your World – 2015 Week #3

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I haven’t shared my world often, not because I didn’t want to, but because some of the questions were very difficult to answer. I have to do it this time because I know who I want to invite for dinner!

Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

Cee, Chris, Tree, Amy, Lois, Roberta, Janet, Susan, Carol, Randall, Ben… etc. I guess it will be a big dinner party… or many dinners? I am impressed with all of you, each with a slightly different reason. I like you guys so much that I am willing to take a cooking lesson! But this is only a Q&A (ha ha), so let me, at least, say “You are wonderful! Thank You!”

When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

I sing when I feel happy or when I feel down. Last time I sang to myself was probably last week – I don’t even remember why.

Last time I sang to someone else was one day last Nov., while holding my great nephew. Every time I sang, he fell asleep, so I kept singing.

If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Like Robin (I believe it was her), I like to worry less. I have to learn to let go things that I can not change. It’s hard sometime,,, when you love someone so much and want to help him so much, but nothing you did had made any difference.

I like to be able to swim. Water makes me happy. Maybe I will take a lesson when it’s getting warmer.

What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

Religions — I try not to joke about it.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I had coffee with one local magazine writer and found out a good place to do some volunteer work. Due to schedule conflict, I haven’t contact them yet, but I am excited. And soon after my Pilates class ends, I will check it out. And I like my Pilates for Golf class a lot.

Not sure what I am looking forward to. Surprise me, I guess.

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Rochester’s Sad Day

Dec. 31, 2014 was a sad day for Rochester. Our beautiful downtown B&N bookstore was closed; the new property owner didn’t want to renew their contract. It’s many local people’s favorite place. Even the characters in my YA novel, Jin-Ling’s Two Left Feet, loved hanging out here.

I wish we could, somehow, keep the store there. All we have left is our memories and photos.

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Cee’s Fun Foto Challenge: You are My Sunshine, Chorus

Cee’s Fun Foto Challenge: You are My Sunshine, Chorus

Cee’s challenge reminded me of a musical stuffed lion, who sang “You are my sunshine”, that I had bought for my daughter when she was 2. Many times I hugged my daughter while she hugged the lion and together, we sang “You are my sunshine” cheerfully. It was probably the only English song I knew how to sing other than “Happy Birthday”. 😉

The lion is long gone. My daughter has grown up becoming a wonderful independent woman whom I admire greatly.

So… here I present you a photo of Oxbow Park. 😉 (I don’t remember if I have posted this photo before.)

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Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Wood

Cee’s Black & White Challenge: Wood

I always wanted to buy him a golf cart. I finally found one that I could afford.

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