A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself.
— Jim Morrison
Dear Lois,
Happy Birthday! (This is the Monday, isn’t it? 😉
Picture this… we are sitting by the ocean drinking wine, hearing pelicans singing “Happy Birthday” – one, apparently, sings louder than the others (one off-key?) Look, they brought fishes to the party! Lots of fishes. Hmm, I wonder which fish man they stole those fishes from.
The sun is setting. The sky and water are turning orange, yellow, and red. I sit there thinking if you know that you have made this world more beautiful for many of us. Your sense of humor… I start laughing. I laugh so hard that some pelicans fly away.
I remember the first time I read that you started a Toastmaster club in a prison. I was happy for club members because I believe it would improve their communication skills and help them deal with problems in future. But, at the same time, I couldn’t help worrying about your safety. The trust you had built between you and them was amazing. I learned I should never give up on anyone. (Even though I had applauded you until my hands were red, I still couldn’t build up enough courage to do what you have done!)
Then, you shared your bad news and later some good news with us. Throughout the time, you were stronger than most of us. Even when you didn’t feel well, you continued commenting, sending us warm feedback, as much as you could.
So, I’d like to make a toast… thank you for all the things you have taught me (by acting more than talking), for making me laugh, and for allowing me to be me. I press my hands together; I am grateful to have a friend like you.
Pelicans are dancing… or it’s me having too much drink… 😉
Happy Birthday, Lois!
Helen
Thanks for visiting my blog.
Lovely post with a smile!
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Thank you, Rupali. I feel lucky that I have met many wonderful bloggers. Lois is very special indeed.
Have a great evening.
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awe – so beautiful – and piece stick – like the red hands and that singing together – 🙂
happy b-day to lois indeed
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Thanks, Yvette. I wish I could sing with pelicans 😉
Have a wonderful evening.
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Lois is a sweetheart. 😀 😀 And so are you Helen.
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Thanks, Cee. Lois is a sweetheart for sure. I am afraid that is probably the last word I would use to describe myself 😉 I am trying hard to be as nice as I could be, that’s about it. At least I am quite aware of what I have to work on. Ha ha.
Thanks for being such a great friend. Have a wonderful evening.
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Love this! Lois deserves each word you have written here. Happy Birthday dear Lois!
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Thanks, Elizabeth. Lois deserves more than what I have written… 😉 I got to know a lot of wonderful bloggers because of her. (Was that how I met you?)
Have a great evening.
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Beautiful post Helen!!!
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Thank you, Paulo. I don’t know if you know Lois or not. She is a special lady.
Have a great evening.
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Helen–I am speechless. Not good for a former Toastmaster, is it? Thank you so very much for this beautiful post. You brought pelicans! And they brought fish! It does not get much better than this. You are one amazing friend. So much love to you.
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Hope you have a great day today, Lois. Thinking of you the whole day. Wish I could be there celebrating with you. And I would have brought pelicans… Ha. I like pelicans!
Have a wonderful evening.
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Happy Birthday Lois. 😀
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Thank you, Cee!
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Happy birthday Lois, wishing you a great fun filled a year of joy! Well, Helen started the fun fare here already. Thank you, Helen for giving us an occasion to celebrate!
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Raj–thanks so much! Who knew Helen was such a party animal?! 🙂
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LOL.. only for special occasion..
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Some are party animals…. some become animals in the party… I am the latter one! 😀
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Lovely tribute!
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Thanks, Sally. It’s easy to write about a person, who has helped me in many ways. 😉
Have a wonderful evening.
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This blogging community is pretty special… And you know what? We seem to get along quite wel..
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You are absolutely right, Roberta! I love our blogging community so much! (Your comment brought a smile to my face!)
Have a wonderful evening.
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Thank you Helen!
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A very beautiful, sweet, delightful… post, Helen! Happy Birthday to Lois!
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Amy–thanks so much for the birthday wishes. Helen is pretty darn amazing.
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Birds of a feather flock together …All of us are amazing! 😉
Have a great day, Amy and Lois.
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beautiful friendship. I imagine to sing with pelicans — totally out of tune and laugh too hard. ^^
A friend will never pick up the wrong pitch. He/She sings with you!
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Can’t wait to sing with you one day. I used to be better. Now I am often off key. Ha.
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